Support system
I don't know how to stress the importance of an amazing support system. When I was deflated about the "after" of my future, my friends undoubtedly knew that I'd be ok. One friend in particular always had this unwavering faith in me, "I don't know what you will do, but I know you will do great things." (Thank you!) It's crazy that people can see the part that is seemingly undetectable to you. Whatever happen to self-realization?
So I present, 6 people to keep around you (because 5 is overrated):
The realist - This person will keep you grounded, keep you thinking. If plan A doesn't work then you don't worry because you already have a plan B ready. Who doesn't like plans?
The optimist - They pick you up when you most need them to and are somewhat of a lifeline, always thinking of the silver lining. With these kind of people around you, you will never despair.
The daydreamer - Who wants to always be serious all the time and ponder the things you can/cannot do. It's always nice to take a step back - revel, relax, enjoy - the magical world of what ifs. A break from real life is always refreshing.
The motivator - You want a support system filled with people that motivate and inspire you to be a better person. This person has everything you know you can have if you work hard - a beautiful, well-balanced life.
The clown - Everyone needs humor in their life. It's proven that you live longer with a few laugh lines on your face.
The comforter - This person will always be there to give you advice (preferably sound), pop open a bottle of wine to celebrate or wallow, and ultimately care.
The constructive critic - The operative word is constructive, meaning to benefit and improve. This person keeps you in check and forces you to reevaluate.
See how I left out pessimistic/negative people? You are your own worse critic. You probably put yourself down enough, don't need an outsider doing that job for you.
As an aside, I got into grad school!
So I present, 6 people to keep around you (because 5 is overrated):
The realist - This person will keep you grounded, keep you thinking. If plan A doesn't work then you don't worry because you already have a plan B ready. Who doesn't like plans?
The optimist - They pick you up when you most need them to and are somewhat of a lifeline, always thinking of the silver lining. With these kind of people around you, you will never despair.
The daydreamer - Who wants to always be serious all the time and ponder the things you can/cannot do. It's always nice to take a step back - revel, relax, enjoy - the magical world of what ifs. A break from real life is always refreshing.
The motivator - You want a support system filled with people that motivate and inspire you to be a better person. This person has everything you know you can have if you work hard - a beautiful, well-balanced life.
The clown - Everyone needs humor in their life. It's proven that you live longer with a few laugh lines on your face.
The comforter - This person will always be there to give you advice (preferably sound), pop open a bottle of wine to celebrate or wallow, and ultimately care.
The constructive critic - The operative word is constructive, meaning to benefit and improve. This person keeps you in check and forces you to reevaluate.
See how I left out pessimistic/negative people? You are your own worse critic. You probably put yourself down enough, don't need an outsider doing that job for you.
As an aside, I got into grad school!
Labels: life, observation, school
2 Comments:
you forgot the 7th person.
The party animal: Sometimes life is so overwhelming that you need to blow off some steam. This person always knows the right place to go have fun (dancing, drinking, chilling, crazy activities) so you forget about all the pain and pressure in life
oh and congrats again about grad school, i knew you would make it. I'm so proud of you :)
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